OCTOBER 12
Minding Your Own Business
We hear that some among you are ... busy-bodies. (2 Thessalonians 3:11) One day Peter said to Jesus, “What about him, Lord?” Jesus rebuked him and said, “What is that to you?” (John 21:21-22 NLT). Now, if Peter could get into trouble for meddling, then any of us can. The issue here is not about helping others—it’s about knowing when to mind your own business! There’s a big difference. I used to jump in without having been asked and try to solve other peoples’ problems. My motives were the best in the world, but my efforts were fruitless—and often resented. Since recovering from the need to be “Mr. Fix-It,” my life’s a lot simpler. Now that I’m not butting in where I’m not invited, I’m more available to help when I’m needed. Remember, “If it doesn’t have your name on it—don’t pick it up.” It’s that simple! However, minding your own business goes far beyond simply avoiding the temptation to police, enlighten, and “rescue.” It includes not eavesdropping, gossiping, or speculating about things that don’t concern you. That got you—didn’t it? Do you know why we focus so much on the shortcomings of others? You’ve guessed it—to keep from having to look at our own! The only thing you can change about other people is your attitude toward them.
*** THE BIBLE SAYS, “EXAMINE YOURSELVES” (2 CORINTHIANS 13:5). WHAT MORE IS THERE TO SAY?
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